You are deliberately trying to downplay the potential danger that feminists represent to others by asserting that they need to gain strong control of the system in order to produce affects on the lives of others. This is demonstrably false: the feminist movement has enough power in western societies that men are imprisoned because a woman placed his name on a piece of paper, are made homeless because a woman accused him of violence and can generally use their position in society to negatively affect the lives of those for whom they hold animosity. Furthermore, there are laws women can use to rein in those wizards you point to. Feminists are a threat in the same way that black nationalists are a (lesser) threat and neither are something that needs to be allowed greater access to the levers of power.